Your purpose and passions are not defined by the organizations or companies you work for. Unfortunately, I cannot find the quote associated with this statement, but I know it is similar. Nevertheless, I hope you can recognize your gifts and talents even when it does not fit the narrative society created. My truth is I have been in advocacy since birth, but I had no idea it was advocacy then. I was always different, a loner, and yet my personality always popped when needed. Yet, I was the kid who would challenge the bully. Fast forward to today, I realize I am meant to speak up for others even when it is not always easy. Before the pandemic, I was a legal advocate assisting victims of domestic violence. I thought I had to work at all of these organizations to deliver services to victims of sexual violence and domestic violence. Well, what I know now is that victim services and advocacy work come about in many forms. While in my victimology course at Virginia State University, I never imagined that I would not be working with the FBI, Police Station, Commonwealth Attorneys’ Office, or even as a clinical psychologist.
I can apply my purpose in any environment. I am not saying I never have days where I question myself or my purpose. However, I do not let those thoughts consume me. This is why I can operate from a place of purpose, whether I am providing childcare or assisting someone with a protective order. I think it is crucial to shift your perspective in these moments. I am not “just watching kids” or “babysitting.” I am doing one of the most important jobs. Children need to be protected at ALL costs. Especially toddlers and infants. After my son’s childcare provider passed away, I was even more inspired to figure out how to work from home while tending to his needs. Unfortunately, many parents do not have this luxury and have to send their child to a stranger. Due to the nature of the victim services field, I get how dangerous this can be.
Even though I thought my purpose showed up differently, right now, I feel like creating an environment where children can thrive is key. I have the ability to teach my child and other children the right information. I really think as a society we don’t give teachers enough credit. As a millennial, I recognize graduating and getting a degree is not the only way. Likewise, I realize working for a company or organization is not the only way. Whatever you decide, make sure it is balanced. Make sure you feel comfortable leaving your child with the childcare provider. Make sure the company or organization you work for will encourage you to thrive instead of trying to dim your light, control how you apply your purpose or survive a toxic work environment. I said all this to say. Even if you have to start over at a different company, no organization, company, place can take away your God-Given Purpose. Even when others will try to paint you in a negative light, please know your light will shine through anyway.
